What will it Take for Human Nature to Change?: DAY 329
The Fear of Failure and Desire for Success – continued
Solution (continued):
Here we’re going to walk through opening up all the
Dimensions of the Problem and within the Problem – also see the Solution, as we
walk a Process of
Writing of Self Forgiveness and Self Commitments
From the previous ‘Interview
Post’ – we’re now going to Structurally have a look at the Process of
walking the equation and the reverse of the equation of
participation/observation + definition/connection + reaction = changing one’s
mind/self/behaviour with the examples that we used with regards to how:
One can move from the Lazy/Failure Character – react to it, ‘Negatively’
– such as in FEAR, but then redefine/reconnect one’s relationship to it into
and as a Neutral/Positive, by/through justifying/excusing/validating one’s
existence as being ‘Lazy/Failing’ and so continue participating/observing one’s
‘new-found’ positive-‘change’ of/as oneself as Lazy/a Failure and so REMAIN
existent as the same Character, only changing one’s ENERGY in relationship
to/as it.
OR One can move from the Lazy/Failure Character – react to
it , Negatively – such as in Fear and then accumulate enough Fear where one’s
relationship will go to the Polarity-Opposite as DESIRE. Then, from within
DESIRE as a reaction to the Fear of/as the Lazy/Failure Character – redefine/reconnect
one’s relationship to self into and as a New Character as, for example,
Success/Discipline and then start Participating in/Observing that New relationship
of oneself.
In Both instances – one is constantly, continuously walking
the relationship-equation of participation/observation + definition/connection
+ reaction = changing one’s mind/self/behaviour from the one Character as the
Lazy/Failure Character and then reverse it in Reacting to it and then moving to
the other Character – as either justifying/excusing/validating oneself as being
Lazy/Failure or going into the New Character one Created as Success/Discipline –
over, and over and over again.
And so, what Determines this ‘Change’ in ENERGY – with going
back to the Lazy/Failure Character and/or Creating a New Character – is much
dependent on how much REACTION you genuinely experience in relationship to the
Lazy/Failure Character. Meaning, if the reality-shock/consequence shock was not
enough within your Mind, energetically, and only produced a ‘relative’ amount
of Fear: it would be easier for your Mind/Consciousness to just balance out the
Energies to take you back to a ‘neutral / positive’ in relation to you
justifying/excusing/validating why you are Lazy/a Failure. However, if you
reacted ENOUGH, meaning enough Fear was produced in reaction to your
Failure/Lazy Character and the reality-shock/consequence was enough to
generate/produce so much Shock/Fear into your Mind/System – this would lead to
Consciousness then being able to balance the Energies in taking you into and as
the Opposite Polarity as the POSITIVE that was equally as strong as the
Negative Reaction as Fear; and so initiate you into and as the
Energy-Experience of DESIRE and from DESIRE initiate the Process of creating/producing/programming a
New Character/Personality. So, here – what in fact thus determine whether you
only change in energy-relationship to a Character and/or actually create a New
Character as an Opposite of the Previous: is how much you REACTED to/as your
Initial Character.
Now, within this also comes an Interesting Point – from the
perspective that: how much ‘internal shock’ you get from the ‘external
shock/consequence’ within the External Reality/Environment and how much ENERGY
that produce - will determine whether you Remain within a Character/Personality
and simply change your energy-relationship to it, using the
reality-consequence/shock as a further means to REMAIN UNCHANGED. Or whether
you go into the Polarity Opposite of an initial Character/Personality and then
simply change within an ENERGY-REACTION, using NEW ENERGY to Create a NEW
CHARACTER and so still not really in fact Change – but in the Mind, through
ENERGY. Granted, yes – this will Change one’s Behaviour/Living, however SELF do
not LEARN or become AWARE
of how one’s Mind/Consciousness created the Initial Character/Personality and
Energy within it, in the first place – and then use the same constructs
(thoughts, imagination, backchat, emotions/feelings, memories, projections
etc.) that created the problem in the first place, to now create a ‘solution
from the problem’, instead of CHANGING the problem. And so, there will always
exist a ‘problem-solution’ relationship within
self, the problem always existing as the initial Character/Personality
battling it out with the new Character/Personality – there’s not rest, no
peace, no harmony, no hereness, only constant/continuous inner-conflict.
Within these/such Dynamics as well, what’s interesting is
that: Dependent on the shock – internally and externally and the REACTION, the
extent/amount of energy produced, will determine HOW LONG you will maintain the
‘change’ and/or how ‘energetically motivated’ you will be to Remain changed.
Taking again the example of a Lazy/Failure Character – where the internal/external
shock in relation to FEAR was not AS extensive that will ‘just be enough’ for
Consciousness to balance it into neutrality/relative positivity in changing the
energy-experience to remaining within the Lazy/Failure Character, that will
then accordingly determine HOW LONG you can justify/excuse/validate you
remaining as a Lazy/Failure Character, until you simply just accept it again
and maybe, possibly in the Future create potential for Change. But, every time
one justify/excuse/validate the Lazy/Failure Character, the stronger it gets
and when/as shock/consequence events do happen, it’s not enough to change the
strengthened stance within and as Self as a accepted/allowed
Character/Personality. And so, for most part in our Lives within this physical
existence – we have used reality consequence/shock wake-up calls, instead of
CHANGING, to rather justify/excuse/validate who/how/what we are and remain
unchanged in/as our Nature.
Then as well within the Change from Lazy/Failure to Discipline/Success
– dependent on the extent of FEAR-reaction generated, will depend on how much
energy you have available to balance out into the Opposite Polarity as DESIRE and
so will depend how much ‘energy-motivation’ you have to create and manifest the
New Character. Sometimes, there’s just enough DESIRE created for change to
sustain only thoughts/imaginations/projections of Change, but it never goes
into ACTUAL physical/behavioural change and so one for a Moment experience the
DESIRE but then slowly but surely progress back into Failure/Laziness.
Thus, it’s fascinating within this all – with regards to how
we’ve used reality consequences/shocks/wake-up calls to not LEARN in terms of
how our minds really work and how it create consequence in our world/reality –
but used/abused it to create New Characters in the Mind and/or
justify/excuse/validate our already existent characters/Personalities. So, it’s
like – we in our Minds adapted to our own Consequence we create in our Minds
that then filters into our World/Reality, adapted for our own
Mind/Energy/Character/Personality SURVIVAL – no Learning, no Real Self-Change,
no understanding how the Mind-Physical relationships work and so we continue
perpetuating consequence in reality/our Lives and giving more attention to
ADAPTING to the consequence we Create, than actually UNDERSTANDING and LEARNING
from the Consequences we create to STOP creating such consequences in our
worlds/realities and showing others how to do the Same.
In the next post, we’ll continue with the Process of how to CHANGE
internally and externally with LEARNING from consequence through understanding
our mind-physical relationships, instead of using reality/consequence within
it, to further justify/excuse/validate our self-separation and responsibility
in relationship to the mind and the physical reality. Because, within this
comes to question – to what extremes must reality-consequence go, for the
shock/wake-up call to be enough, for human beings to start questioning the mind
and its relationship to the physical reality and our life experiences, instead
of using our own creation, to justify/excuse/validate the very problem as the
mind creating the consequence in the first place? And within this, show how/why
we have Never in fact changed within and as our own initiative / motivation –
but have always been dependent on REACTION and energy-motivation, and so
why/how the Change in Human NATURE has never been VISIBLE within this Physical
Existence.
