Self-Change without using Mind Energy: DAY 331
What will it Take for Human Nature to
Change? - continued
The Fear of Failure and Desire for Success – continued
Solution (continued):
Here we’re going to
walk through opening up all the Dimensions of the Problem and within the
Problem – also see the Solution, as we walk a Process of Writing of
Self Forgiveness and Self Commitments
So, here we get to the Question: “How do I change without
using REACTION to my own consequence, such as a Failure/Lazy Character, without
using ENERGY, without Creating different ‘me’s’ as Characters/Personalities,
without Creating an Energy-Polarity within me as a Negative/Positive, without
using Thinking/Backchat?”
The Answer: Writing, Self Forgiveness, Self Commitments and
the Living of those Commitments into Practical Application. Now, the next
Question: How does this work? And, here comes-in the point of Awareness, of
SELF-Awareness and establishing one’s Self and Awareness of this Self, through
becoming Aware of how the Mind
operate/function and exist. So, SELF-Awareness
is a Process. First, one have to become Aware of the relationship of one’s current
‘Self’ to/as the Mind, such as accepting and allowing the
participation/observation + connection/definition + reaction = that then
determine/control/define ‘who I am’ within and without. Then, from this
equation – Change it to self-responsibility + self-directive principle +
expression = living/applying who I am.
Let’s walk-through the Example of the Lazy/Failure Character
– how to Change not in Energy/Character, but take Words and actually Live/Apply
them as self, which does not create a ‘Fighting’ within self or against self,
but a Self Movement, a movement of Self in / as breath and the physical - that
re-establish in/through this Movement, the decision for Change, and so will
also explain why/how Change is a decision you make in a moment, but the
becoming of that Change into and as Living Self/Expression: is/will be a
Process.
As we mentioned, one’s first step is WRITING. Why Writing?
Writing assist and support you to see the details of the relationship-equation,
the consequence, the Character/Personality that you accepted and allowed
yourself to Become as the ‘I Am a Failure / I Am Lazy’-statement of
definition/becoming. That part of the Mind, that you accepted and allowed your
Self/Awareness to be bound to. So, from automatically participating/observing –
one now, with/as one’s Self/Awareness LOOK/investigate/introspect. Already in
this Step – one is taking Responsibility, Self-Responsibility, the Self that
you accepted and allowed to be/become/define yourself as is standing back for a
Moment to Look/Investigate/Introspect what it is that I have accepted and
allowed myself to be/become in the process of taking Responsibility for that
Acceptance and Allowance.
So, in the Writing Phase – one write out, what are the
Thoughts, the Backchats/Internal Conversations, Comparisons, Judgments,
Reactions (emotions/feelings – positive/negative), Imaginations, Memories etc.
that come up in the Mind / within self that essentially in different ways Represent
this Lazy/Failure Character/Personality that self becomes in a Moment with
following the automated equation of participation/observation +
connection/definition + reaction = that then determine/control/define ‘who I
am’ within and without. Also, here – one can Reference the Character-Dimensions
and how to Write, Self Forgive, Self Commit and Change through practically,
structurally walking through a Character/Personality that we Illustrated from
DAY. So, already here – one is assisting and supporting oneself to not
automatically go into Observation/Participation, but STOP oneself and instead
LOOK/Investigate/Introspect through Writing.
Then, Self Forgiveness. Why SELF-Forgiveness? Many
individuals ask “Why must I forgive myself” / “What must I forgive myself for?”
– obviously within this Implying that Self Forgiveness is not understood, with
regards to how it is Approached within Desteni.
SELF-ForGIVEness is the Process of “giving/gifting SELF back to SELF”, from
accepting and allowing Self to SEPARATE Self into and as
connections/definitions to a Preprogrammed System as the Mind/Consciousness and
all that constitute its existence and so abdicated one’s Responsibility to the
totality of/as ‘who I am’ within and as the Mind. See: as we have explained –
our SELF, our Awareness – has come to exist in
relationships/definitions/connotations to/as the Mind, and we simply
automatically follow the equation of participation/observation +
connection/definition + reaction = that then determine/control/define ‘who I
am’ within and without. So, SELF-ForGIVEness is standing from within the
LOOKING/Investigating/Introspecting and Forgiving Self for Accepting and
Allowing self to continue existing in such a
relationship/definition/connotation to the Mind/Characters, thus the statement
reads “I forgive myself that I have ACCEPTED and ALLOWED myself” – this Process,
and the detail of Acceptance and Allowance of we Accept and so Allow our relationship to
ourselves as the Mind/Characters to continue existing as-is, unchanged –
has been walked in Previous Posts within this Blog. That moment of
participation/observation – is the moment where we ACCEPT ourselves as what is
coming up in the Mind, automatically, that then lead to the Allowance of
connecting/defining, reacting and then changing our behaviour/living through
the mind/energy patterns/automation. So, with Self Forgiveness – one Forgive,
as Release one’s SELF from the acceptances/allowances in one’s relationship to
the Mind/parts of the Mind and will then in the Commitment Statement RE-STATE
as Re-establish ‘who I am’, to no more automatically ‘accept and allow’ automated
participation/observation, but now in SELF’s Awareness, in/as Self’s Change
through the Commitment Statements: Live one’s Correction in moments through
Self Movement/Self Corrective Application.
The Self
Forgiveness Process one then walk from the WRITING one had done, as the
Writing holds the blueprint of all the parts of the Character in which one automatically
followed, within acceptance and allowance the equation of
participation/observation + connection/definition + reaction = that then
determine/control/define ‘who I am’ within and without. So, with each Self
Forgiveness statement, one release the acceptance and allowance and GIVE/GIFT
Self / Self’s Awareness back to self. For this Process of Writing and Self
Forgiveness – we suggest reading/following the 7 Year Journey to Life
Processes, and if/as one have ANY Questions – the Desteni Forums are available regarding how to approach
Writing/Self Forgiveness, as well as a Free Online Course introducing one to
the Mind and how to walk with/through it at DIP Lite.
This then brings us to the Commitments and the Practical Application:
If you have a look at the Process thus far, there exist no ‘energy
forces/reactions’ within/throughout it all. It is a Process of sitting down,
breathing, looking/investigating/introspecting, then ForGIVEing the acceptances
and allowances, gifting SELF’s awareness back to Self and Finally to the Commitment
Statements that will be the preparation for the Process of Change. In the Commit
Statement Process starting with ‘I commit myself, to assist and support myself’
– one is re-establishing one’s Commitment, one’s Stand, one’s Responsibility to
SELF, essentially walking the question: “How am I going to assist and support
myself to change this acceptance and allowance into and as a stand that will be
constructive, practical, by which I can stand and in fact practically live to
assist and support my development, growth and expansion within me and my world?”
With referencing the ‘automated’ equation we exist as within
the Mind with participation/observation + connection/definition + reaction =
that then determine/control/define ‘who I am’ within and without, one thus
through Writing, Self Forgiveness and Commitments change it to:
From participation/observation to
LOOKING/investigating/introspecting
From connection/definition to/towards what automatically
come up in the Mind = to Forgiving/Releasing those acceptances/allowances and
then in the Commitments re-establishing one’s Self Definition/Stand of ‘who I
am’.
From Reaction – to Self Expression, becoming the Living
Decision/Commitment one had established for self in the Commitment Statements
and so actually change self through SELF-movement within self and reality
From the Mind determining/controlling one’s behaviour/living
= Self becomes AWARE of ‘who I am’ in every Moment of Breath and one’s ‘who I
am’ and so ‘Living’ is done in Self Awareness and not blinding,
unquestioningly, automatically following whatever comes up in the Mind.
We’ll continue more in Posts to come with giving perspective
of the difference between Reacting to oneself and then ‘adapting’ to consequence,
and Self-Movement and in fact Self-Change.
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