Memories as Chains vs. Memories for Self-Change (Part Two): DAY 462

We often ‘indulge’ in our memories, where this ‘indulgence’ can very quickly transform into imagination where we play memories out / relive them and/or transform into internal conversations where we talk to ourselves about the Memories that come up in the Mind.

When memories themselves come up, when we relive them in our imagination and when we talk to ourselves about the memories – they are often accompanied by experiences of emotions / feelings. For most part, as with much of the constructs in the mind such as thoughts / internal conversations / projections / fantasies – we have with memories, not utilized them practically / effectively enough within our Minds. Meaning: Instead of using Memories to reflect on who we are / how we are to facilitate growth/expansion/change – we have used Memories to ‘relive the Mind’, to ‘relive the experiences they produce’ and/or have actually used/misused Memories to justify/excuse/validate certain thoughts/words/deeds that we in fact know was compromising / self-limiting towards ourselves and our relationship to others.

So, with Memories – it’s like we take them and swirl them around within our Minds, looping them over and over and over again: experiencing the same reactions/emotions, having the same discussions, thinking the same thoughts. Not realising how we’re within this process / relationship to Memories: actually keeping ourselves in a loop, keeping our own thought patterns / reactions patterns the same and is one of the reasons why we never change our habits / patterns in our thoughts, words and deeds.

So, the question then: how to assist and support oneself to constructively use one’s memories and relationship to Memories for self-development/growth/expansion and inevitable change, where we LEARN from ourselves through our Memories – rather than solidifying personalities / habits / patterns and create the same consequences / make the same decisions in our lives? See, what is not seen/realised/understood is: through our participation in memories – when we think about them / react towards them / speak about them in the same way, what we’re doing in this process is in fact keeping ‘ourselves the same’. This means: we’re ‘chaining’ who we are and so how we look at things / make decisions - to/as our Past/Memories, and so in the present we’ll make the same choices / decisions which will lead to the same consequences / lead us down the same paths as we had walked in the past / in the memories.

Whereas: if we reflect / introspect on our thoughts/words/deeds in Memories – assess/analyse our words / tonalities / behaviours / choices / decisions and observe their consequences / outflows on ourselves / towards others – we can more ‘readily’ find problems in how we think / speak / act and so accordingly change ourselves so that we don’t make the same mistakes in thought/word/deed.

We contribute to the creation / experience of ourselves and our lives through our relationship to memories – as long as we keep ourselves and the relationship to the memories the same: most of how we experience ourselves and live our lives will be the same. Therefore, in the DIP – one will be introduced to Mind Constructs, which is a practically structured process one walk through Memories in the Mind – where one see for oneself how one’s relationship to memories can be walked in meticulous detail and for oneself see how holding onto memories and our thoughts/reactions towards them: determine how we make decisions/choices and so contribute to how we create/experience ourselves, our lives and relationships within them.

We have also done interviews on EQAFE that explores memories (Here is the link to the page with all the interviews done / walked in relation to Memory: MEMORIES - EQAFE) and how to work with them practically; to discover the resources that in fact exist within and as our Memories and relationship towards them to facilitate oneself into/as self change/growth/expansion within oneself, one’s life and relationships.

Two worlds in one Word: The Separation between the Mind and the Physical – Part 3: 

DAY 421

An example of how we split the Mind from Reality and in the process fulfil/define/give meaning/purpose to something/someone according to MY want/preference – in this process disconnecting oneself from reality/the physical/the real world completely is, for example again having a look at our relationship to our own physical bodies. Standing in/as the shoes of the physical body itself, the reality of the physical body – the physical body is a living organism that makes it possible for us to exist in this World/Reality. YET, where we bring in the Mind-World and Physical World mixture to words is where many for example can within them speak the word “My Body” and with it can come up all sorts of connotations/backchats/images/emotional reactions/discomfort. This an example of how we have taken reality, the physical body as-is and redefined it/fulfilled the word “Body” or words “my  body” with and as and into the “Mind World”. So, who/what defines “Body / My Body” – what/who substantiates this “Word” – we do! Who we are within and as the word “Body / My Body” will accordingly define who we are and how we live/experience ourselves within and as it. So, if the Word Body/My Body is in the MIND / Consciousness is will with judgments that substantiates the word – then we, who we are, becomes the judgment as the word ‘My Body / Body’ according to how we defined it in the Mind/Consciousness and that becomes our relationship to ourselves and so the Body – that of judgment/emotional reactions/ideas/images/pictures.

With this, have a look at how far people will go to from the Mind World / Word definition to/as their own Bodies – try/attempt to change/alter that which is REAL, that is Physical, to fit the Mind Word/World. Like, trying to mould/shape/design the Mind Word into the Real Word/World as the Physical Body; thus here an example of how we ‘live in reverse’ – it’s like the Mind/Consciousness is this black hole that sucks reality into it, and in that black hole churns/misconstrue/change actual real/reality and then tries and spews out the altered/changed reality into/as another ‘universe/existence’. Like within/beyond the black hole there’s another universe/existence into/as which actual reality is spewed-out and changed – trying to use/abuse physical reality to change it into and as our Mind’s Reality. In this process, everyone fucking up what’s here/what’s real, not being equal to and one with it – like, our bodies – it should have been the simplest relationship of nutrition, sustenance, everything the body practically needs to be stable/efficient/effective in ALL its processes, but instead it’s about appearance, the picture, the image how the MIND/CONSCIOUSNESS as ourselves redefined reality/the physical where there is little care of the reality of one’s body and more about the mind’s relationship/feeling to it.

So, I would really suggest investigating Desteni, investing in the EQAFE interviews – especially the series on Imagination, because in this series you can clearly, specifically see how we split ourselves between the mind world and physical world and the extent of consequences we create for ourselves, our relationship to our own bodies and also into our personal world/personal relationships. Specifically, how much of this can CHANGE –with us changing WHO WE ARE in and as the words we speak/live – changing our words/who we are in/as the words and how this change our world – within and without.

More to come

Two worlds in one Word: The Separation between the Mind and the Physical – Part 2: 

DAY 420

So, now that we have looked at words – their structure and reality, how one can separate them and how we looked at the mind-physical relationship, wherein we restructure reality into the mind and redefine it according to our wants/needs/desires/preferences; what we have also done is define and create words in and as our MIND world. Thus, there exist words that do not originate from reality, the physical – but from within and as the MIND. Most of the words we use exist within the starting point / origin / source of the Mind – completely separate from/of this actual, real physical world/realm – and when I say ‘physical’, I also include here the mind-physical realms, where the mind became the physical manifest. What I mean with ‘completely separate’ – the mind and words completely separate from/of the physical and mind-physical realms is where we’re looking at our relationship to/as the Conscious Mind only – the domain in/as the Mind/Consciousness in/as which our thoughts/emotions exist- this realm is where we most often take reality and misconstrue it, fulfil it with our own meanings/definitions/purposes. Not realising within this how, as our relationship to the Mind, especially the conscious mind evolves – the more and more and more we become separate from reality, the physical and don’t even realise how little of actual reality we in fact See/Register/take into Consideration.

When looking back at some of the interviews done by the Reptilians especially in relation to Words – it’s interesting how they explore this process, this relationship between words, the mind and reality. How the question is – do words create our world and/or do our worlds create words and/or BOTH? Because, it’s fascinating having a look at this all interdimensionally-physically in terms of having us humans existing in ‘two worlds’, the Mind world and the Physical world and how there exist Words within BOTH worlds individually that defines them AND we have words where both the mind and physical world are ‘mixed’. And so we keep on existing in our relationship to Words, holding the worlds in separation between the Mind and the Physical, or shall we also say Consciousness and Reality. For most part, we don’t realise how we have ‘become the Words’, the ‘living word’, which means – who are we in relationship to the words we speak, behave, think, imagine, fantasize and how ALL of that, creates our relationship to the Mind, our Physical Bodies, our relationship to others and so our World/Reality.

Now, it’s interesting within this how Important Words are – how we create ourselves, program our minds, define our living/behaviour through words and there is no emphasis placed on Education for children coming into this world/reality, to creatively, effectively construct who they are through/as Words and become effective Living Words / Individuals in themselves and their world/reality.

Therefore, the Main Point that has to be seen, realised and understood within this all is one’s relationship to Words and the Worlds one is creating through and as them as ‘who one is’ in the Mind, in Reality and also in/as the Mind-Physical relationship as one’s relationship to self and the physical body. Primarily seeing/realising/understanding how you are keeping your relationship to the Mind, Body, Reality/Personal World and relationships ‘as is’ / ‘unchanged’ – controlling who you are in thought, word and deed – because of the meanings, definitions, purposes you have given to words and so, to yourself.

We’ll continue more in the next post

Two worlds in one Word: The Separation between the Mind and the Physical – Part 1: 

DAY 419

I’m sure many has been introduced to the process where you repeat a word, speak it fast for a while and eventually the word starts looking weird/alien and it loses its meaning/purposes because you start looking at the letters of the word being the main focus and do not see the meaning/definition/purpose within/behind the word.

So, the question within this is – is it that the word-itself becomes ‘alien’ and/or loses its meaning/purpose or is it that we actually SEE the word-itself for the first time – purely seeing the letters aligned-together forming the word? What I mean with seeing the word-itself for the first time, it’s like ‘looking at the word without its definition’. It’s fascinating that within this, with just looking at the word – the letters/symbols without its definition: the relationship that forms with the word itself is like it’s a ‘foreign language’, when one is introduced to a foreign language one cannot form a relationship to the words/alphabet without understanding the meaning/definition/purpose of the words.

So, here – let’s have a look at this relationship between words repeating and our mind repeating – where we ourselves lose ‘meaning/purpose’ within who we are and how/what we live by/through what we constantly/continuously repeat in the Mind.

A shift happens when we repeat words, where the relationship moves from the definition/meaning – to the letters/symbolism. The same happens within our minds when something repeats, a shift happens from reality into and as the construct/symbolism of what it is that we’re thinking about/imagining and then we become ‘possessed by it’. So, within this – we create a separation/split ‘between two worlds’: the letters/symbolism separate from the meaning/definition. We do this in our Mind-World / Physical-World relationship – creating a separation/split between two worlds where we can create a Mind-Reality completely separate from Physical Reality and actually in/as the Mind-Reality create a whole new meaning/definition/purpose to something/someone that is not in fact related to reality in any way whatsoever.

As with the words, we for a moment become possessed by the letters/symbols, seeing the word itself alone without its ‘REALITY’ and in this process – the word loses its meaning/purpose/definition. So, the relationship evident here is that with words – to ‘fulfil them’, one need “reality”; reality being its physical context as its definition/purpose/meaning –its relationship to REALITY, this REAL WORLD.

Words ‘connect’ us, or rather should connect us to REALITY, how things really are in/as the Mind and Reality – meaning: “seeing things AS they in fact are” instead of how we WANT them to be / intend them to be. This is one of the main reasons as to Why/How human beings cannot directly-see into the conscious, subconscious, unconscious, quantum mind and quantum physical layers of the mind-physical relationship: we split/separate the real world into the mind world and then redefine/fulfil the mind-world according to MY WANTS – creating a whole new world/realm in/as our own Minds. Have a look, even with the words that we repeat and they lose their ‘reality’ as meaning/definition/purpose – in the Mind-Physical relationship, we take it one step further in terms of separating/splitting the Mind from Reality and then REDEFINING/fulfilling the mind reality within its OWN CONTEXT and do not align it in/as equality and oneness with and as Reality.

We’ll continue with examples in the next post

Being able to Stop Thoughts – proves that both ‘who I am’ and Thought itself is Illusion: 

DAY 377

So, many claim “I am Thought” / “Thoughts are me” / “I Think, therefore I Am” – by implication stating that ‘who I am’ is Thought, as Thought is ‘who I am’. Now, this is in fact so with regards to how we have defined ‘who we are’ by/as/through the Thoughts we think.

But, what is not seen, realised and understood is that: the very Thoughts that comes up in your Mind – actually comes from memories within your Quantum Physical – to understand what the Quantum Physical is and how memories form in the Physical Body that will eventually determine your thinking: we suggest Listening to the Parenting: Perfecting the Human Race Interview Series that is now explaining this process in detail. Thus, Thoughts, what you think and HOW you think – meaning, what is the CONTENT of the Thoughts, what is the general EXPERIENCE within and as them; ALL of your thinking processes is activated from/of memories in your quantum physical, quantum mind and unconscious mind – activating from external reality stimuli, and then process itself into and as Thinking. SO, it’s not in fact SELF that is THINKING – it’s, shall we say, more like MEMORIES talking, MEMORIES that ECHOING. This is what thought is: The ECHO of Memories.

So, what is SELF then? This one can practise/apply for oneself: after listening to this Interview, and one find oneself in the Mind within/throughout the day – THINKING, more looking at thoughts like, for example “I don’t want to do this” / “I’m not going to do this now” / “Man, I don’t feel like this day” / “This day is awful” – have a look more at sentences as thoughts you speak to yourself in the Mind and then, in that moment – take a Breath, in breath and out breath and decide ‘who I am’ in the moment. Like, if the thought comes up of “Man, I don’t feel like this day” – immediately in the moment say “No, I don’t accept/allow this- I will not accept/allow such a THOUGHT coming up in my Mind to determine who I am or experience myself. I decide to stabilize myself and walk in every moment, I determine who I am, not a THOUGHT TELLING ME who I am”. In such a moment, you can change yourself relationship to you and the day – by making a simple decision of/as WHO I AM. Thus, the SELF is that of you that is Aware of the Thoughts, that can See them, Hear them, Feel them AND…CHANGE you in relationship to them. Such a thought that we walked in the example, would be a PATTERN from memories SPEAKING TO YOU IN THE MIND and you just keep on accepting it and believing it, instead of changing you in relationship to it.

TO understand more about the Self, Thought and Mind/Consciousness relationship – suggest investigating Desteni, the Desteni I Process – where you’re shown the Difference between Self Awareness and Consciousness, and how humans are existing in/as thought and in relationship to it, without Realising what THOUGHT in fact is, what determines your Thinking, how Thought is created, where it comes from – why you always BELIEVE it, without ever Changing.

So, this then coming to the Point of why/how – Stopping Thoughts/Thinking in a moment shows that Self as well as the Thought is an Illusion, because: have a look – you can’t ‘stop/change the Physical Body’, it’s manifested, real and physical. Yet, you can Stop/Change you in/as a THOUGHT. If Thoughts can be stopped, it shows Illusion – cause, one moment they’re there, and then the next, simply by a decision you make –they stop! And if/as you believed yourself to be that thought you just stopped, then you as that thought, as that part of you defined in/as the thought is also /was also just illusion.

So, join Desteni – to Understand the Process from Consciousness to Awareness, how to Birth Life from the PHYSICAL, become REAL from/of the Illusion of Consciousness we’ve accepted and allowed ourselves to be/become/define ourselves as.