When the promise of Relationship activates instant Metamorphosis: DAY 431

In the recent Relationship Success Support interview (will be available on EQAFE this Sunday/next Wednesday) – an interesting point opened up with regards to how we would (and the extent to which we would) ‘change ourselves for Relationship’ / the prospect of Relationship.

One of the first points mentioned is how, within the media/magazines for example you get the “what to do/wear and what not to do/wear for the first date”, or “what put men off from women and what put women off from men”, or “what are women looking for in a man and what is a man looking for in a woman”. It’s interesting here that some people take such things as ABSOLUTES, like these are the views held by ALL women or by ALL men…when, this is not in fact so. I mean, the lists weren’t made by asking all the billions of people available out there / in relationships already. However, some take it as absolutes and follow such lists as Religion – changing themselves DRASTICALLY just to secure a relationship, but never realising that the real you is eventually going to show/come out. Just changing yourself for the beginning stages of the relationship is Not going to change ALL of you…and then people wonder why relationships don’t work out….

Then, another fascinating point that many may be able to relate to was opened up with asking the question “Why do we Fear ‘being comfortable with who we are/in our own skin’ – essentially showing the prospective partner “this is who I am”, but instead CHANGE and HIDE a lot about ourselves when it initially comes to the relationship”? So, a dimension opened up here – showing how: when you’re in school and you see the boys/girls starting relationships and you don’t, and then start comparing you to those that ARE in relationships and then wonder “what is wrong with ME that I’m not in a relationship/someone isn’t interested in me!” When, the following commonsensical points are not considered: you’re in a SCHOOL with a limited amount of people, thus, certain people are during that time more in alignment with others that are already in the school – the person that you may during that time have been more aligned with was not in your school. And then we as teenagers take that context within/during school and think “there’s something wrong with us because WE weren’t in earlier relationships” when it had NOTHING to do with oneself per say, but that you were in a school with a limited amount of people. And people STILL live with those memories and let such memories define them, and now change themselves for relationships because they believe who/how they are isn’t enough, because it apparently wasn’t enough when they were in school.

The interview explores this process of why/how we change for relationships, why/how we become so self-conscious when it comes to relationships and why we don’t allow ourselves to just be comfortable with ourselves – already from the get-go being able to say/show to the person “this is who/how I am – do you want to share this time/our lives together?” – you know, that you already from the get-go know where you stand with you/who you are…how would the experience of the relationship change then?

We’d within this also suggest investigating the ‘Relationship to Agreement’ Course available in Desteni I Process – assisting and supporting with how to establish a relationship to self and so with another where you know where you stand with you/each other and can walk together as EQUALS and learn from each other and grow, instead of compromising oneself for relationships that only lead to self-consequence / consequential relationship.

HOPE – The Metaphysical Carrot: DAY 237

 Featured Artwork: by Kelly Posey

The FORCE - continued

The Chicken or the Egg??? – continued

How the Fruit of Life became Rotten – continued

Who I Am as Money – continued

(To read this post, it must be understood that we’re walking this process/Blog - Heaven's Journey to Life multi-dimensionally, which means – each post covers one dimension, but is interconnected into/as multi-dimensions in our process of walking the point/question of “who I am” and how this “I” created/manifested this entire physical existence. Thus, suggested – to read this Blog from DAY 1, as many of the points in previous dimensions/DAYS/posts are always brought-through into the next days/dimensions/posts as all the dimensions interconnect as the multi-dimensionality we’ve created/manifested as our separation as Energy/Consciousness from/of Life/equality and Oneness. Thus, if one is faced with this post, and have not yet read this Blog from DAY 1 - suggest that self first start from DAY 1, as otherwise one will have no context of many dimensions that is walked in this post, that has been dealt with in detail in previous posts.)

So, most are familiar with the idiom of the ‘Carrot on a stick’ dangling in front of the Donkey at such a distance that the Donkey is just, just, not able to Reach it; and so the Donkey would be motivated to ‘pull the cart’.

So, let us have a look at this point regarding the relationship between human beings, Hope, and 2012 – and within that, what it is that is “behind” the donkey/human being as the individual/system in the cart that is dangling the carrot/hope in front of the human being.

So, first and foremost to understand here is that – I am in no way relating human beings to ‘Donkeys’, not from the perspective if it ‘diminishing’ the human, it would in fact diminish the Donkey with doing so – with the extent of how much the Animal Kingdom is actually in fact More Aware than human’s Consciousness, which one can listen to for oneself with Investing in the Interviews in EQAFE of the Animal Kingdom coming through the Portal. So, we’re utilizing only the context of this Idiom as the ‘story’ it represents and how it directly relate to the lives of Human Beings, within many contexts – however, we’re only having a look at the dimensions and relationship to Hope and 2012.

So, in the previous post – we walked the word “Promise” and its definition, and sound, physical and energy symbolism within and as human being’s Consciousness relationship to 2012. So, the question we’re walking here is: Why is it that we’d rather hold onto Hope and Promise, than Certainty and Reality? What is the ‘Hope’ that is being created in the Minds of human beings, regarding the advent of 2012?

So, here – one must specifically look at the words within the question with the emphasis on the WHAT within “what is the ‘Hope’ being created in the Mind of human beings, regarding the advent of 2012?” Because, the WHAT is Hope is what we’re first going to walk through, regarding the creation/programming of Hope within and as Consciousness of the Mind as ENERGY. To see, realise and understand the Consequence of Hope, in our living within and as this real, physical existence.

Let’s start first, with the sound, physical and energy symbolism within the word HOPE – which is actually so obvious, that it’s not been seen: HOP-E –

HOP - hop, hopping – a jumping action that continues constantly and consistently

E – Representing Energy

So, if one have a look at the experience of Hope within the Mind, when it relates to, for example the End Times / Ascension or whatever date is/has been set for the “end of the world” / “reaching/attaining a new world” throughout the History of human civilization: such a prospect has become equal-to and one-with the ‘carrot dangling’, always just, just ‘out of reach’. In/as this process, the human being is filled with Hope and the ‘Promise’ of a ‘new world / new life / new experience’; and then the next moment…nothing happens, and then the ‘Promise’ as the Carrot is Dangled in front of their eyes once more and the human beings are filled with ‘Hope’…and then the next moment…nothing happens, and the carrot / ‘Promise’ seems to be just an inch away, and then the ‘Hope’ comes again, and so the human being continues ad nauseum this relationship to ‘Promise’ and ‘Hope’…the ‘Reward’ as a ‘new world / new life / new experience / new afterlife’ or whatever it is that the prophecies/predictions present with regards to what’s going to happen at “Certain dates, Certain Times”. And this happens, over and over and over and over again – without any introspection, questioning, personal investigation or referencing reality/this Physical Existence, the ‘Hope’ as Energy Experience and the ‘Promise’ as a projected Mind-Illusion is regarded to be MORE than our physical living/responsibility in/as this Real, Physical Existence.

So, furthermore – that specific “days and times” are set, regarding particular events, is never questioned, from the perspective of investigating how this physical existence moves, and the beings/awareness of/as this physical existence. They’re not ‘scheduled to time’, yes – human’s Consciousness can “measure time”, however – the moment the measurement of time has been done…movement/motion/expression of the physical has already changed; that human’s Consciousness have not seen, realised and understood regarding “predictions” made, that – if/as one do not stand in/as the absolute equality and oneness of/as the HERE of/as Existence: one cannot / do not in fact see-Direct the standing of/as existence in any way whatsoever, but will be separate. And so, any “time” one measure is but one’s separate-Interpretation of/as the movement/expression of/as the Physical in/as Existence. That, what is not taken into consideration with “predictions” are: all of Humanity’s Minds and its impact on all of / each one’s human physical body, from the conscious, subconscious, unconscious, quantum mind and quantum physical and ALL and everything within and as Consciousness itself as the thoughts, feelings, emotions, personality systems, internal conversations, energies, resonances, vibrations. THEN, within this – how the movement of the relationship between the mind and the physical in each human being, influence their behaviours, interactions, relationships and so decisions, that will from there thus determine the entire ‘mind-physical equality and oneness’ of humanity as a whole. THEN, the movement of/as the interrelationships between all of/within/as this Physical existence – the universe, the weather, the atmosphere, the earth, the animal kingdom, to the bacteria, viruses, micro-organisms – how they’re movement, accordingly affect/influence our physical’s and how our mind-physical relationships accordingly determine theirs – so, this Physical Movement within/as existence is not AT ALL taken into and as consideration within such “predictions / prophecies”, and this is but mentioned a FEW relationships to consider and their determinant contribution to/as the future of/as humanity/this physical existence as a whole.

So, if/as none of this is / has been taken into consideration by/through Human’s Consciousness – then “where are we”, because “we’re here IN this physical existence…but we’re not in fact HERE AS this physical existence in/as equality and oneness”. We’re in this Physical Existence AS Consciousness, that interpret reality through the ENERGY it produce from/of it, and even within/as that very existent relationship, what happens is – Consciousness consume substance/physicality and produce in/from that consumption, a holographic, alternate, energy representation of/as the Physical. And so, within and as and through that one single action/moment, we’re already separated from/of the Physical, the Moment, the Here and channelled into and as a Past as Energy as Consciousness/the Mind. I mean, this separation is simply proven by the fact that – human beings haven’t considered establishing an equal and one communication to/as the Physical/this Physical existence to See-Direct what is really going on here.

So, again returning to the HOP-E:

Within and as Energy/Energy Experience – one exist within and as a hopping/jumping motion, in and between the Polarities of energy from the negative, to the neutral and then to the positive. In/as this hopping/jumping motion within and between the energies of the Mind, one is not existent here as Breath in/as the Physical REAL world. So, Hope – in fact exist not only within the context of, for example 2012 and its ‘promises’ – but where this relationship originate from, is existent within and as our own Minds within the principle “as within = so without”. So, here we’re coming to the WHAT is Hope in/as our relationship to/as the Mind’s energies as the negative, neutral and positive and how such an internal accepted and allowed relationship, manifest our relationship to/as our lives in/as the external.

We’ll continue in the next post with having a look at the nature of Hope as ourselves as hopping/jumping within and between the polarities of energy, and how hope within and as a Promise in/as the without of ourselves, is keeping human beings internally and externally, separate from/of Reality - constantly, continuously animating delusions in the Mind, while our responsibility to here as this Physical Existence, is being neglected/disregarded.