Why do we only Deal with Problems when it’s Too Late?: DAY 496

Planet – Plan-it – Plant (Part Three)

So, we’ll in the next post continue with having a look at the dimension of acceptance, automation and abdication of responsibility when ‘things go wrong’ in our mind-body relationship and our relationship to the world out there – especially why and how it is that we as a collective do not stand together / have evolved to a point where we can adjust our relationships and the systems in the world to unite to PREVENT what’s happening and find sustainable long-term solutions – but rather have gone into this acceptance of ‘things are generally wrong / bad’. We’re going to have a look at how this is one dimension separating us from our rootedness and responsibility to ourselves, each other and the world as a whole – uniting to develop this ecosystem of life on earth to the betterment of all and so ourselves.

If we have a look at our 3 primary realities: the Mind / Consciousness, the Physical Body and our Social Environment / the World System – there is a level of acceptance, automation and abdication of responsibility that exists within all three. In this post, we’re going to explore these 3 dimensions existent within the 3 realities, causing us to not be rooted in our being, body and physical existence within the principle of equality and oneness as what’s best for all; where we as beings, as bodies are not contributing to the ecosystem of the living organism(s) that is here – creating life instead of destroying it.

The Mind / Consciousness in relation to acceptance, automation and abdication of responsibility:

Acceptance:

We have come to ‘accept’ that we think, we react, we imagine and talk to ourselves in our Minds. “This is what it means to be human” we say, “This is how we know we exist” we say – but we’ll only ever question our thoughts and emotions when they lead to something ‘bad’ / ‘consequential’. Even then, we don’t necessarily look at the very existence of thoughts / emotions – but categorize it into a box as a ‘problem of human nature’ and then try and ‘live with it’ (psychology / psychiatry) or find methods / drugs to contain it / suppress it in some way or another (the medical / drug industries). From what we have observed with the human mind, most people in this world have evolved to ‘handle’ their thoughts and emotions better, others cannot and so similar thoughts / emotions would be acted out where the nature of the human mind becomes ‘visible’ in the physical and then becomes a ‘problem’ when they become a threat to themselves and others.

For example, most people have ‘violent thoughts’ – where in a flash of a moment they envision themselves hitting someone when they get angry at them, but it stays in the realms of the Mind. Others, they have ‘violent thoughts’ and act on them – the only difference between people is some can contain their Minds within, others cannot. It’s only when the Mind becomes VISIBLE that it now ‘becomes a problem’…when this should not be so. Just because some manages to keep it in – doesn’t mean that the problem doesn’t exist, it’s just that the problem cannot be seen, but the problem remains: who are we in our relationship to the Mind?

So, we have for a long time in human history only been dealing with the mind or trying to control it, once it spills over into living action. Again, we do the same with ourselves in our own lives – we don’t pay attention to our thoughts and emotions as long as they remain secret / hidden, but the moment they do become visible – it is often too late to really change oneself, one’s relationship to the Mind once it possess you and you embody it in your living action. For example, when looking at depression or having a ‘short temper’ – with the research we have done in our relationship to the thoughts and emotions, these / such conditions develop over TIME due to an accumulation and suppression of thoughts and emotions that eventually build in the mind and body, escalating over time to a point where depressive / anger-related thoughts and emotions eventually takes you over, leading to a mental and physical state / conditioning of a constant experience of depression / having a ‘short temper’.

So, the point here to become aware of is how we ‘Accept’ the Mind – the thoughts and emotions and everything else going on within us, because we’re never taking a moment to step back and really look at / investigate to UNDERSTAND the effects of our thoughts and emotions on our behaviour / self-experience. Very seldom do you really ever reflect on thoughts and emotions, because it’s just become an ‘accepted’ part of self – when all the while it is the very ‘accepted’ thoughts and emotions contributing to who you are, the decisions you make, how you behave, your state of mind, your general self-experience, the nature of your relationships in life, how you experience sex, why your life has been the way it is, why you are who / how you are today – I mean, everything and all that you are, do, say, experience- stems from thoughts and emotions when looking at your relationship to the Mind as a whole.

So, one of the main points when it comes to this dimension of ‘Acceptance’ is existent within the following questions:

Why have we come to ‘Accept’ that conflict between two people has to be thwarted with reactive thoughts, projections and emotions? Why is there not inherent in human nature the stability and commonsense to talk things through as equals and bring disagreements to a solution that’s best for both?

With having a look at the above point, many may answer “because that’s who we are and what we do”, when all the while it’s this very ‘Acceptance dimension’ that’s in fact speaking, because we have the potential to change ourselves, but we’ve been ‘arguing for our own limitations’ because we’ve accepted and so believed that these / such limitations exist that human nature cannot be changed. When, with the processes we’ve walked with Desteni – there are many individuals who have proven in their living application that this can change, the you and another can come together and talk things through as equals into a SOLUTION, with no reactive thoughts, projections and emotions needed…

Here is but ONE example, in the documents to continue I will bring through more examples of things of human nature as the Mind/Consciousness we have just come to ‘accept’ as long as it ‘stays inside the Mind’ and how this essentially brings to question whether we as people ever really properly investigated, researched and understood human consciousness – because as far as I can see, we have only ever tried to control it / contain it when it becomes ‘visible’…as long as it ‘stays out of sight’ in the physical world, we just ‘accept’ it…

We’ll continue more in the next post

Relationships and Death (Part 2): DAY 482

The Moment of Shock

Shock, Trauma and Stress (Part Four)

…Death is Death, one cannot in fact go to the absolute of saying “I Fear Death” – if one only react to the deaths of those in the inner-circle, and not blink an eye to the Deaths of those in the second and last circle. If we’d REALLY ‘Fear Death’ – we’d be in a constant possession of FEAR with the extent of Deaths that manifest every second time goes by within/as this physical existence. So, if we do not ‘Fear Death’, but only “Fear the Death of ourselves and those in the inner-circle”…what is it that we’re actually fearing /reacting to???

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to ever question why / how it is that we develop such an intense / intimate connection with someone / something, to the extent where – when we lose them / when they die, especially unexpectedly: it leads us to a point within ourselves where we never want to “love someone” to that extent ever again due to the fear of having to go through / experience the depth of sadness and despair one is taken into/as within oneself?

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to ever consider that: a part of us is in fact from the get-go Aware of the intense intimacy / connection that we have come to define as “love” and at the same time as that “love” grows, as the intimacy and connection intensifies: the fear of losing them grows. Where, we ‘overall’ have the general experience of love – but every so now and then, the projections / imaginations accompanied with emotions and fear, visit us in the Mind in relation to ‘what would we do / be if we’d ever lose them’; but we very quickly discard such imaginations / projections, suppress them as far back in our Minds as possible – not realising the “warning” such projections / imaginations in fact represents…

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see, realise and understand how the intensity / extent of the experience of “love / connection” – closely equals the extent of “fear / sadness and loss” experienced at the end of a relationship; sometimes – dare I say, the extent of “fear, sadness and loss” is MORE and deeper and ever so compromising on one’s mental and physical well-being than the extent of “love / connection” one has had for someone. So, why and how is it –within this equation that it seems like the loss and the mental and physical impact it can have on one, is a consequence / “cost” for/as the extent of “love” one had for someone / something? But why does “love” have a price that we mentally and physically ‘pay for’? Why does the loss, grief, sadness – all the emotions involved with the death/loss of someone close, more seem like a ‘punishment’ that makes us crumble and fall into the depths of despair, a sorrow that can penetrate so deep into oneself that it can make one feel as though one can never come out of it?

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see, realise and understand the dynamics of how the Mind Consciousness System operates / function within Polarity and the direct-relationship between Love and Fear – where: for “Love” to exist, “Fear” must exist in relation to how the Mind Consciousness System polarize the negative emotions and positive feelings. This is why and how it is that, the more one’s “love” grows and moving closer to someone – equally the fear grows of having to be apart.

Where, I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see, realise and understand how – when/as one experience “love” / “positive feelings” for someone that develops over time, it’s like one’s heart feels ‘fuller / bigger’ as though it ‘expands’ every time one think of the person / see the person / embrace the person. Then equally – when/as a moment occurs that the person is gone / has been lost to oneself, one’s heart aches, it feels as though it’s being torn apart by the deep sorrow, sadness and pain and emptiness emerge where previously – one felt fulfilled, complete and whole.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to ever notice / introspect / investigate this polarity-relationship within the Mind in relation to Love and Fear, in relation to the Heart fulfilment and Heart ache, because this has become such an accepted and allowed way of existing and living, never questioned why such a relationship / love with someone that seems to reach the depths of one’s being / “soul” must end with such pain? Why does it not come to an end with a celebration, an appreciation / gratefulness for the time spent together, for what was learned from one-another, how you together grew as individuals – where all the time-spent comes-together in that one moment that you move apart / separate; and what overwhelms one is this absolute sense of knowing that the time spent together was well spent, that the time you had together was used to its utmost potential and that you individually and together lived in such a way to have no regrets…all that remain is the gifts that was left for each other, immortalized in how you lived individually and together and how the gifts given and received will continue to live on through how one interact/live/express with oneself and those still in one’s world.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see, realise and understand how/why it is that none of us ever stood back for a moment and wondered why and how it is that humanity had become so divided when it comes to relationships and love; where we all have our small inner-circles to which our relationships and love can extend – but none of us have equal relationships / forms of love to the rest of humanity/this physical existence. If we’d have relationships, if we’d ‘love’ as ‘care / consider / regard’ the rest of humanity / this physical existence as a whole as much as we do for ourselves and those within our small inner-circles…how different would this world have been? Is this world / humanity in the state / condition that it is because we have limited / diminished our capacity to really in fact care / consider / regard others as we’d do for ourselves and those in our small inner circle? Does the degree to which we then ‘love’ not define our very limitation, if it only extends into a small inner-circle?

We’ll continue more in the next post – expanding on the point with regards to why/how it is that the “fears” that come up in the mind as the “love” for someone grows, stands in the context of being a ‘warning’ and finally understand why we exist in such an extreme polarity of love and fear in our minds in relation to someone; and what are the consequences and solutions for such relationships and experiences we create within the Mind.

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Character Dimensions – Practical Application (Part 1): DAY 163

 Becoming Aware of The Mind – By Andrew Gable, 2012.

Character Dimensions - continued

The FORCE - continued

The Chicken or the Egg??? – continued

How the Fruit of Life became Rotten – continued

Who I Am as Money – continued

(To read this post, it must be understood that we’re walking this process/Blog - Heaven's Journey to Life multi-dimensionally, which means – each post covers one dimension, but is interconnected into/as multi-dimensions in our process of walking the point/question of “who I am” and how this “I” created/manifested this entire physical existence. Thus, suggested – to read this Blog from DAY 1, as many of the points in previous dimensions/DAYS/posts are always brought-through into the next days/dimensions/posts as all the dimensions interconnect as the mutli-dimensionality we’ve created/manifested as our separation as Energy/Consciousness from/of Life/equality and Oneness. Thus, if one is faced with this post, and have not yet read this Blog from DAY 1 - suggest that self first start from DAY 1, as otherwise one will have no context of many dimensions that is walked in this post, that has been dealt with in detail in previous posts.)

As mentioned in the Previous Post, we’re in this post walking the Practical Example of the Postponement Character and so specify all the Dimensions of Fear, Thought, Imagination, Backchat/Internal Conversations, Reactions, Behaviour and will also include, and so expand on the Dimension of Consequence.

Here, we’re going to walk through the Practical Application Steps of Writing, Self Forgiveness and Self-Corrective Application in Identifying a Character and Redefining Self into and as Practical Living.

The example we’ll be utilizing is the Identification of the Postponement Character and the Redefinition of Self into and as Practical Living as Self-Discipline.

WRITING:

Thus, the first step in the Process of Identifying Characters, is WRITING. Here one establish the context of the moment and one’s relationship to it, essentially a description of what happened in the moment of when one was supposed to practically do something to get it done, but instead Postponed.

For Example:

Taking the context of walking Writing itself, together with Self-Forgiveness and Self Commitment Statements – in process we have a tendency to Postpone such practical applications, as with Writing, one is in the process of facing self, the mind and developing an intimacy of understanding what’s really going on within self., because with seeing/understanding how we operate/function within the Mind, can bring forth a realisation of how to in fact Change. This is an example of where the “Force” will step in as the Mind as ourselves, as we’ve as ENERGY/Consciousness manifested ourselves with ‘self/energy serving protection/defence mechanisms’ that any opportunity that would bring forth a Self-realization/awareness / Physical Stability/Living will immediately be resisted, as what we have done/become throughout our Lives is always SERVING ENERGY/the Mind as Consciousness instead of ourselves, the physical body and so this Physical Existence as a whole. And so, we’ve become energy consumers, serving energy – instead of physical living beings, taking responsibility for our actual living in this world/reality.

This can be taken into context within this World System as well – we’ve come to SERVE MONEY, and will protect/defend our relationship to Money and how this current World System exist, serving/considering only our own Interests and not what is/would be Best for All in Equality and Oneness as an actual real PHYSICAL SOLUTION for all of Humanity. Consuming money, serving money – instead of considering our relationship to money within the context of practical living and humanity as a whole to stand up/stand for a solution in all of humanity’s relationship to Money.

Thus, this “Force” operate in two contexts, internally and externally – as ENERGY and Money, Energy Consciousness as the Mind and Money Consciousness as the World System, always protecting/defending/serving ENERGY within and MONEY without; as will be seen, with for example walking this Postponement Character, that we’d manipulate ourselves with ENERGY into giving into the Mind and giving up on ourselves/practical living HERE that would be best for ourselves.

Thus, this is one of the Dimensions, within the Context of the Postponement Character as where the “Force” of/as Energy as Consciousness of/as the Mind as ourselves would step in to serve Energy, instead of standing with ourselves in Practical, Real Physical Living. Because with Writing as well, what we tend to do in the Mind is simply ‘wave off’ / ‘brush off’ / ‘suppress’ / ‘blatantly ignore’ the things that preoccupy our Minds, not realising that those very things are what’s forming/shaping our relationship to ourselves, the physical and our world and everything/everyone within it. For the Mind/Consciousness as ENERGY – it’s obviously best one do not Understand it, cause as long one do not Understand it, the better continued Control it has over/of Self, with walking the Quantum Mind Interview Series one will see, realise and understand the extent to which the Mind/Consciousness in fact control the entirety of who we are in thought, word and deed, but unaware of it due to our limited awareness only existent in the Conscious Mind.

So, here to understand why/how it is that one may experience Resistance in the beginning of one’s Process and tend to activate the ‘Postponement Character’ – as it is in fact a point/opportunity of Change, through understanding how self created/programmed self into a Personality in the Mind, because with understanding it, being equal-to and one-with it as one layout the blueprint of it in Writing, one  has the ability/power/responsibility to in fact change Self, from a controlled Personality dominated/manipulated by fears, thoughts, internal conversations/backchats, reactions of emotions/feelings and physical behavioural systems, to a self-aware living being that makes a decision of “Who I Am” and actually LIVE it.

In this, one can have a look at various contexts with regards to where the Postponement Character manifest in one’s World, and one will realise that this Character really has a tendency of possessing in instances that would contribute to change, to expansion, to commitment, to responsibility, to one’s future – for example, can look at contexts of:

Postponing with School/University Assignments/Tasks – compromising one’s future and survival in this world system that is, unfortunately at this stage really dependent on establishing a profession/having an education. Obviously yes even though this may not be guaranteed, it should still not be an excuse, reason, justification to not utilize the opportunity you have in this moment to complete your education. You do not know what the Future may bring, and therefore, rather utilize the opportunity you have with education, commit yourself to get it done, so as to not have to face the regret of not utilizing this opportunity you have, later in life. It is here in your life/world, therefore – do it, get it done.

Postponing Communication – this is also one may tend to face, postponing having a conversation with another human being after having had an argument, for example. And one had seen one’s responsibility within it and what one could have done differently. We tend to leave things in this context, instead of realising the opportunity to self change, in taking responsibility for one’s thoughts, words and deeds and the consequences it manifested in another. Thus, here, what postponement would do is creating unnecessary rifts in relationships, with ‘leaving things in unrest/without solutions’, suggest here thus to when/as one do see one’s responsibility in an argument/discussion, to communicate it, make an agreement to bring the point of the argument to a solution that will benefit both as equals.

So, here are just two examples for more contexts one can consider, thus – explore the Context of when/as one has seen the Postponement Character manifest, that had taken one into the separation of serving Energy/Consciousness instead of self, and self-responsibility here .

Let’s continue with having a look at the context of the Postponement Character manifesting with starting one’s  process of Writing, Self Forgiveness and Self Commitment Statements, and/or even completing a task/assignment in one’s Profession/University/School:

“I was sitting in front of my Computer, about to start Writing/completing a Task/Assignment and as I was about to Write/ Complete the Task/Assignment, I was overwhelmed within me by this experience that I just wanted to ‘get away from’, like – really not wanting to stay in that moment and do the writing/task. And when I moved away from the responsibility – I actually felt better. Eventually it got to a point where I kept on doing this, and never got to the writing/completing the task.”

Thus, here an example of a Practical Reality Context – now, we start going deeper into/as Self/the Mind in that Moment with Walking the Dimensions of a Character/Personality, to understand what that energy experience was that self created – in seeing, realising and understanding how self in fact in the Mind deliberately created that ‘energy experience’, to not take responsibility in that moment, and so how to not accept/allow self to be directed/controlled by an energy experience, but stick to the decision self makes within self with completing writing/a task, not giving in to energy/mind, but standing with self, here.

[I’d further suggest reading through the 7 Year Journey to Life Blogs individuals are walking, applying the processes of writing, self forgiveness and self corrective application to see/understand the practical process of facing/understanding the Mind as self and within that, how to redefine self’s living to what is/will be best for self and so best for all, taking responsibility for who one is in thought, word and deed.

Also, I would within this suggest reading Earth’s Journey to Life that is walked very Structurally regarding the process of facing Self as the Mind and taking/living Self-Responsibility.

Within this, is also the Desteni I Process that, together with a Buddy/Individual, assisting and supporting self to in detail walk through the dimensions/layers of the Mind as the Conscious, Subconscious and Unconscious Mind.]

THOUGHT Dimension:

Here, as we have mentioned, the Thought will be the Point, the ONE point that would activate the Postponement Character. The Thought can be in the form of an image/picture and/or Memory/past experience that would relate to activating the Postponement Character.

For example – it can be seeing a Memory of ‘enjoying watching television/series’ / ‘just sitting and doing nothing’ / ‘seeing self sitting in front of the computer/laptop/book and being bored’ / ‘an image/picture of boredom’ may come up / ‘an image/picture of sleeping’ come up / ‘an image/picture of walking around aimlessly’ may come up. So, what’s interesting in this, is that the THOUGHT that would manifest in the Mind would either, for example deliberately create a negative-energy experience to/towards what one is physically practically doing, OR would create a positive energy experience with doing SOMETHING ELSE.

Primarily what I have found though with the Postponement Character is that it manifest Polarity, meaning – deliberately manifest a Thought as negative-energy experience towards what one is doing, for example ‘seeing yourself as bored sitting in front of the computer’, and then in the IMAGINATION dimension – the positive-energy experience would activate of ‘seeing yourself doing something that you would define as not being bored’, like imagining yourself enjoying watching a movie/series/television.

So, what would be interesting to establish here, the more one practise this process of Identifying Characters and within that establishing the walking with breath as the physical in slowing oneself down in physical space and time to see how the Mind moves, is – how the Thought would create a ‘negative’ to what one is doing, and then the Mind would in the IMAGINATION dimension bring up the positive temptation of doing something opposite that would ‘make one feel good’. So, essentially how we deliberately ‘play games’ with ourselves in our own Minds – deliberately creating a negative to a moment that would serve as an opportunity for change, to deliberately creating a positive in the MIND to lead us into/as the temptation of Mind/Personality as ENERGY. Because if one would in that moment Follow the MIND, one would give into doing something that would give one a positive energy experience/good feeling, giving the Mind/Consciousness its energy-serving, instead of doing that which would serve self as life/living in committing self to practically stick to responsibility/discipline.

We’ll continue in the next post – with the self forgiveness and self-commitment statements of the THOUGHT Dimension, and so continue through the Dimensions to simultaneously more understand how Characters operate, what’s our relationship to the components/dimensions of Characters and within this, how the Force as the entire Mind as Energy utilize energy to manipulate ourselves into separation/interest/ego instead of self responsible, directive and aware living here in and as equality and oneness with the Physical. 

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