Suppressing Reactions protects Consciousness and Compromises
Self – DAY 382
If one have a look at ‘suppressing reactions’,
this happens when you for example react to another’s words/statements – I’m
sure that most that have had relationships/partners have done this often, where
the partner will say something to which one actually react, but will simply
continue with the ‘smile and nod approach’. We predominantly also actually
learn this within the parent-child
relationship, where - as children, we don’t develop effective communication
skills (with ourselves and others) and when we vocally/through behaviour react
to parents, we’re often reprimanded and so create a fear of the consequence of
reaction externally and rather suppress it/internalize it: one of the advents
of the creation of Backchat/Self-Talk/Imagination.
Within this process, it’s quite fascinating because: instead
of us as children already understanding our mental/emotional/feeling body
development/evolution and so how/why we REACT
to others’ words/behaviours – we ‘act out’ in words/behaviours, then those
words/behaviours is suppressed by the parents in some way or another and so we
internalize that suppression and never again within/throughout our lives
INVESTIGATE / introspect / understand our own minds/reactions, but
predominantly just internalize and suppress. Within this, we create the Split
between Two Worlds – our internal self and external self, when it comes to
reactions and the suppressions thereof. For most part, if you look at how
little we really are “real” on the outside and the extent to which we SUPPRESS
reactions/experiences/mental happenings in the Mind/Consciousness – we evolve
more in ways to suppress/internalize things and put up a façade on the outside.
Within this, what evolves is everything that we
suppress/internalize- because, it most certainly doesn’t ‘go anywhere’, it
stays, it accumulates, it layers and this is how one’s
nastiness/spitefulness/revenge as internalized/suppressed reactions can
escalate in the Mind, to the point where one day you can imagine something
towards someone because of a reaction you had with them that you
internalized/suppress and be absolutely shocked at what you can come up with in
your Mind – when, all the while, it escalated/progressed over time.
Now, we’re not saying that you must REACT – LOL, no – by no
means, this is not the Solution. We’re saying it is to UNDERSTAND,
investigate/introspect your own reactions that you suppress/internalize to sort
it out, direct it, change within and as it. Because, the consequence of such
internalizing/suppressions of reactions is that, as I’ve mentioned, they
escalate and evolve and can morph into a personality that can in a moment
possess you and lead you to words/actions in reality that you will regret. So,
to ensure you don’t create your OWN mind possessions, we suggest investigating Desteni, the Desteni I Process – where you’re walked
through a process to Understand your Mind, reactions, suppressions – that only Evolve
consciousness, and NOT in a good way with the extent to which your
imagination/fantasizing can take you.
Thus, stop compromising self, your inner and outer world
through suppression/internalizing/hiding – investigate, introspect and
understand and so change so that your life isn’t controlled by
reactions/suppression and imagination, but that you can in every moment of
breath stand in stability and responsibility
and DIRECT a moment in commonsense, rather than reaction / consequence.
