LIFE-Regulation Practicality (Part Three): DAY 308

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Survival Management vs. LIFE-Regulation - continued

LIFE-Regulation – continued

In this Final Post, regarding LIFE-Regulation – we’re going to have a look at some Practical Living Considerations of how to start walking one’s Process from Morality as ‘Survival Management’ that has kept the Consciousness Personalities in place, and so one’s accepted and allowed relationship to this World System/Money System and abdicating Responsibility in one’s relationship to one’s own Life and so the Life of/for All in/as this Physical Existence – and start being/becoming a Living Example of/as LIFE-Regulation, as follows:

From Good/Right and Bad/Wrong to - ‘What’s Best for All’

Whenever one face a moment, relationship – and one find one’s Mind go into ‘this is Right/Good’ and/or ‘Bad/Wrong’, to in the moment change the cross-reference to: Does that stand within the Principle of/as What’s Best for All, and so Best for me or Not? With the ‘Not’ in fact meaning – will this Decision/Direction produce CONSEQUENCE as compromise in me/my relationship to others, or will this bring forth a Solution and/or how can I structure the Decision/Direction into and as an equal and one Solution for me and/or all involved?

See – already in the above one can see the Change in ‘abdicating Responsibility’ within Morality and actually Taking Self-Responsibility and giving Direction to a moment/decision/direction. Because, in Morality – one would have automatically, essentially, simply Judged a moment/direction/decision through the eyes of Morality. Whereas within LIFE-Regulation, one take Self-Responsibility for the moment/decision/direction, understand it, cross-reference it with/as everything/everyone that is involved and then from there – make an informed, objective, practical Decision with taking ALL things into consideration; and not just immediately going into a reaction of Morality.

Additionally, Morality would take one into a state of mind of only taking into consideration MY Opinion, MY View, MY perception/interpretation and how that makes ME Feel; when in a moment/direction/decision – there’s A LOT more involved/to consider than one’s own Mind Experience, and so the extent to which, consequentially, one Miss so much that is in fact involved with Decision making and Directive Principle in a Moment.

It is like, taking the example of Alcohol/Drugs for example – that can so easily be misconstrued within the Principles of Morality, where the Individual can change it to being ‘Good/Right for ME’, when within the Principle of What’s Best for All – the ME-only disappear, and one actually start considering MORE than JUST ME. So, within the principle of/as what’s best for all – one take ALL things into consideration, and cross-reference for example Alcohol/Drugs, one see that: one can be/become a Potential Danger for oneself and others, as one know one become Unpredictable on Drugs/Alcohol, and that Drugs/Alcohol has contributed to no Personal Advancement/Expansion/Growth within oneself and one’s Life. And so, one take the Self-Responsibility to not accept/allow Alcohol within oneself/one’s World and becoming more directive with those in one’s World that do still use/abuse it with pointing out this One Commonsensical Reality equation: Alcohol/Drugs completely remove one’s awareness / self-directive principle while on it and become thus in this a Danger to self and others and one simply will not / do not accept such Unpredictability of consequence in yourself/your world and will Stop/take Responsibility for such equations in your life where/as you can, in becoming a directive principle of what you accept and allow in your world and what Not.

Then, from here – extend the Responsibility even further, to Investigating the Consequence of Drugs/Alcohol within/on Humanity, and how many human beings resort to such substances, primarily due to life/living conditions and/or especially the Education System and Family/Parental History. Where, they simply did not have an opportunity in this World/Reality and so resorted to Surviving and ‘busying their time’ with Drugs/Alcohol, and/or using Drugs/Alcohol cause they simply do not Understand their Minds/Consciousness as such education do not yet Exist, and rather with Dealing with themselves/their lives – simply suppress it all; and Drugs/Alcohol do just that. And so, a correction needs to be implemented on ALL levels from Family, to Parents, to Education to the ENTIRE System, cause it will be Interesting here, to consider that: how Children/young adults would change if their Lives from the BEGINNING is oriented to UNDERSTANDING their Minds, how to SOLVE things they experience themselves within themselves, orienting Education to LIFE/LIVING Skills, enhancing their skills/talents/abilities and directing their Minds/themselves to contributing to Life on Earth, learning about this Physical Existence, how things work, how Life can be bettered for ALL…in this Drugs and Alcohol would be/become IRRELEVANT as being/living/expressing SELF would be so absolute, nothing else but Self and who I am in/as the moment would be needed to be ‘Self’, Express Self and Enjoy Self. Enjoyment/Fun will become about Self Expression and Participation – rather than the preprogrammed/brainwashed notion of wanting, needing and desiring Substances that only harm/compromise Awareness and Responsibility creating the idea/belief of ‘Enjoyment / Fun’ at the expense of Human Lives.

So, here thus – the Main Principle existent within/as Life Regulation, not looking at situations/relationships/moments within/as/through the Eyes of Morality, and so within/as Reactions of Emotions/Feelings; but to – when/as one face Decisions, for example to: assist and support self to really write out the Decision, who’s involved, what’s involved and how making a decision and directing it/taking responsibility for it, would influence/affect Self/All involved and so also self/all’s Future. In Morality – we tend to make Decisions ‘in the Moment’, the ‘Now’; not seeing, realising and understanding that ALL Decisions one make, affect and define oneself and the rest of one’s Life, and should thus Always take into account as well how a Decision would play out within one’s world/reality and the future to come.

Here I would Strongly suggest Investing in the Interviews Decision Making 101 Part 1 and Decision Making 101 Part 2, within these Interviews is very specifically outlined the Process of Decision Making. Because, within Morality – that’s become a ‘Guideline for Decision-Making’, Morality is used based on emotional/feeling Mind-Reactions/Responses to decisions/moments one may face in one’s World/Reality, and when making decisions in the MIND as the Interview will also Explain, we tend to not take into consideration REALITY and Reality Consequence/outflows/play outs.

So, we Invite you to Join in discussions with regards to the Process of actually taking Responsibility in moments of making Decisions, investing in the suggested interviews above, and start practising and applying LIFE-Regulation, as taking Responsibility for oneself, for decisions, for moments and referencing them within/as the Principle of/as What’s Best for All, and so best for self. To join discussions – visit the Desteni Forum HERE, and we can assist/support with/as this Process of understanding what it means to take SELF-Responsibility, and expand oneself and one’s life into/as a Purpose/Meaning, that extend beyond only limiting oneself within/as the guidelines of Morality that has limited/trapped individuals into/as what Life on Earth is/has become, and start referencing one’s Life/Living within/as the Principle of equality and oneness, standing for all and so for self.

In this, what must be seen, realised and understood is that – for LIFE Regulation to exist, we need to be/become the Living Examples of taking Responsibility/implementing Responsibility for ourselves, our lives and our Future. Thus, we suggest Joining Desteni, participate in discussions in the Forums as we walk the Process of redefining ourselves, our lives and living and so for those to come, in creating/manifesting a Life/Living that does not only exist for Survival, but actual Evolution of the Self.

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Survival Management vs. LIFE-Regulation (Part Two): DAY 301

LIFE-Regulation – continued

(Continuing with what we have Walked from DAY 283)

In and from this Post – we’re going to walk a Process of Self Forgiveness and Self Commitments – exploring the difference between Survival Management/Morality and Life Regulation / Reality/Physical Consequence; as a proposal of what All Cultures of Humanity can incorporate into and as Living Principles that will serve as a Regulation of Life/Living within Humanity and for Individuals.

Now that we have thus far walked the relationship to Morality – the Polarity between the Positive and the Negative as Good/Bad and Right/Wrong and how this is being Taught with ENERGY with not understanding how Consciousness Balance Energies – where, essentially: the ‘principles’ taught within Morality becomes irrelevant and the ENERGY within which the Words are being Taught DOMINATES and the Individual can make, for themselves, in and as Consciousness, according to Energy-Experience – something that was ‘Bad’, ‘GOOD’ for themselves in the context of the Situation/Environment/Relationships that they Face. In this then, flows the Consequence of how we regard ENERGY-Experience/Reaction MORE than the Reality of the situation/environment/relationships that we Face, how often do we Regard how WE REACT to something/someone, MORE than actually bringing the situation/relationship into and as an Equal and One Solution for all Involved? We do not in fact LIVE WORDS, but words have become  ‘Energy-Pockets’ of emotions and feelings to which we define ourselves/react, that have more Evolved Consciousness, and energy-experience/reactions, than actual Living Examples of Living Integrity in our self-relationship and relationship with others.

In this – let us have a walk-through a Self Forgiveness and Self Commitment Process regarding this difference between Morality as Energy-Polarity of Consciousness as Survival-Management for the Self-Interest and Consciousness of the Individual, and LIFE-Regulation that regulate relationships and consequence into and as What’s Best for All Solutions:

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see, realise and understand how Morality as Good/Right and Bad/Wrong, split reality/environments/situations/experiences and relationships into Two Absolute Worlds – together with the Good/Right producing Positive energy-experiences and Bad/Wrong producing Negative energy-experiences. However, how the Bad/Wrong can be changed into being Good/Right and then the initial Bad/Wrong becomes Good/Right and then the Bad/Wrong in fact Produce Positive Energy Experiences. Within this, not seeing, realising and understanding how – Morality has more been Taught through ENERGY, instilling either FEAR or DESIRE within the Individual in relation to ‘what is Good/Right’ and ‘Bad/Wrong’ and so the child/young adult imprint More the energy-experience Reaction to ‘what is Good/Right and Bad/Wrong’ than in fact Understanding the WHY and the Consequence of Both Polarities.

I commit myself to show, how – if one have a look at one’s Childhood years, for most part – learning about Morals, Good/Right and Bad/Wrong, there was always an Energetic-attachment to it, especially if one learned through consequence / reward and the Parent accordingly change their Voice/Behaviour within an energy of either Fear/Praise to Teach the child the ‘difference between what is Good/Right and Bad/Wrong’. And so, we’re taught to Fear certain things and Desire other things, but Never really understanding the exact Nature of WHY we should Fear/Desire that which is Bad/Wrong and Good/Right; it is just accepted/imprinted – primarily based on the Relationship to the Authority of the Parent. THEN, we get to have our own ‘Minds’, so to speak – our own Voices/our own Authority – now trained/imprinted primarily with Fears/Desires as Taught by Parents and have such energy-experiences to Morality in fact ‘Guide us through Life’. Not seeing/realising/understanding that it is THAT ‘Authority’ in/as the Child’s Mind that hasn’t been guided, directed, nurtured and is still not Understood, that will become the Child’s directive-principle that will be able to, within ENERGY and the experience thereof, alter/change/misconstrue WORDS and their meanings to suit the interest of the Authority/Ego/Main personality and so be able to make what was Feared or Bad/Wrong, into and as Desire as Good/Right…

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see, realise and understand how Morality of Good/Right and Bad/Wrong will be meaningless if the Individual’s Nature/beingness/presence as who they are in their Living/Relationships is not effectively trained/educated/guided. Meaning, Morality has been taught through a Punishment-Reward System, and the according experience in the Mind and the Body that the child/young adult will be exposed to, such as: if I do Right/Good I am Rewarded, both externally and internally and if I do Bad/Wrong, there is consequence both externally and internally. So, what is interesting here is then, how Consciousness/the Mind will respond is: “if I do something that gives ME a positive experience – it is GOOD/RIGHT for Me”; and so very easily then – the Bad/Wrong as the Negative that was taught into the Child by the parent, such as Alcohol and/or when/when not to have Sex, becomes Good/Right for the Individual later in life, cause they’re having ‘positive experiences’ in relation to Alcohol and Sex and so cannot fathom/understand why it must be ‘Bad/Wrong’ as they do not, personally, with being faced with it – experience anything ‘Negative/Consequential’.

I commit myself to show how, with imprinting Good/Right with the Reward internally and externally and Bad/Wrong with a consequence internally and externally, where the Internal then become conditioned in relation to the EXPERIENCE of what it gets/gets taken away in its relationship to Good/Right and Bad/Wrong: THIS is then the reference the Individual will use within/throughout their lives: the energy experience – NOT the Words or the teachings/principles, but using the reference of Reward / Punishment – what will present ME with reward / punishments and again, as we walked in the previous Posts with the alcohol for example. Parents may have taught the Child punishment in relation to Alcohol, but when the Individual finds themselves in specific relationships/situations, the punishment to THEM will be NOT joining in, and so they go for the REWARD which would be joining in and enjoying the relationships and so their Individuality starts forming their own Morality based on their OWN Mind Authority based on how the parents in fact taught them to use ENERGY and the experience thereof as a reference for/as what’s good/right and bad/wrong.

We’ll in the next post continue with What that Authority is, that has been left un-nurtured within Humanity – that in fact become the directive principle that will direct/control the Individual through Energy Experience, instead of referencing/regulating their behaviour/living according to Reality principles/consequence; and within and during this process continue preparing the Platform of how we’ll change Morality into and as Life-Regulation within the principle of/as equality and oneness as What’s Best for All.

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Survival Management vs. LIFE-Regulation: DAY 289

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LIFE-Regulation – continued

We’re in the Process of Understanding our Consequential Relationship to Morality. By “consequential relationship”, we mean that: Morality in itself – our relationship to it, have contributed to creating More Consequence in the Minds and Lives of Human Beings than actually serving as a Directive Principle for Honourable ways of Human Interaction, Behaviour and Living.

We started off the context of LIFE-Regulation, and what it has now become as Survival Management within and without, within the following dimensions:

Survival Management in the context of one’s relationship to MONEY, where one developed a Money-Consciousness that will accordingly determine what’s Good/Right and what’s Bad/Wrong when it comes to Money/Survival.

Survival Management in the context of one’s relationship to one’s own Mind/Personality Systems, where one develop a relationship to Morality in terms ‘what’s GOOD for ME’ and/or ‘what’s BAD for ME’ – in the example that we had walked with Alcohol, initially ‘BAD for me’ as has been taught, but evolved into ‘GOOD for me’ as the Individual’s Personalities/Social Networks evolved.

Thus, the Dimensions in the relationship to Morality that we essentially had a look at was MONEY and ENERGY/Mind and how these two factors, within the MIND / the Individuals interest/greed – essentially their ‘Survival’, can distort, change, alter Morality to accordingly ‘suit Self’.

Within this, Morality in itself has this ‘High Standard’ within the Human Civilization – obviously, dependent on the Culture one is acculturated into Mentally and Physically, will depend on the Morals adopted. However, it seems to be that Morality in itself, with being regarded as something “Good” / “Positive” – is manifesting the opposite in most respects as the Bad/Negative, with having a look at the research done within humanity regarding how young adults are turning out; even though they were taught ‘decent standards of morals / moral living’. Then, parents blame themselves, blame the Education system, blame the Money system, blame the kids – as though, Morality in itself / what the parents taught the children regarding ‘a way of life/living’, like that knowledge and information in their Minds is somehow magically going to make the Individual a ‘Good person / Decent citizen’. In that, it’s believed that: “Living the Morals you are Taught – makes you a Good person / Decent citizen / Honourable part of Society”, when in fact – the truth is that: “Living the Morals you are Taught, means that you’re good at Following/sticking to the rules/regulations of Morals from the Mind into Physical Living”. Thus, it’s not knowledge and information in itself that Defines the Individual, it’s WHO THEY ARE in/as their beingness/personalities of the Mind that will define their relationship to how they ‘process’ knowledge and information into/as themselves; which will accordingly determine how they incorporate Morals into their minds/lives and/or alter/misconstrue it and/or not reference at all.

So, it’s kind of Strange this whole scenario in the sense that: Parents educate/teach the Children Morals – right, like, having Morals be this guideline/reference for the Child; but within this what is actually being said/believed is that: the Parents Words must become the MIND of the Child - as though the Child is not an Individual that can “think/perceive/interpret for themselves” and it is just naturally, automatically believed that: “If the Child is taught proper Morals, they will become a proper human being” – in this, what is Not Referenced, is the “Individuality” of the Child, who they are on a beingness level and through the Mind and Body interpret/perceive/calculate/experience themselves in themselves and in this world/reality. I mean, if this were in fact so – we could just speak the words “Equality and Oneness” to human beings, and WHOOPS in a quantum moment is uploaded into their Minds the principles of Life/Living and so we’re a Humanity Saved…but, it doesn’t work like that, and so it doesn’t work with Morals. Because, it’s become just WORDS, just knowledge and information – it hasn’t become LIVING PRINCIPLES that is a Presence of who/how/what the Individual is as a Living Example, some just follow the SCRIPT very Good from their Minds into the Physical, others Don’t and then are said to be BAD. It’s like, an Imprint into the Mind: “Human, you follow these Morals – you Good. You don’t – You Bad.” Thus, Morals have become just something to FOLLOW, that the Human WILL OVERRIDE based on who they are on a Beingness level, regarding what they Live/Express in relationships to others/their environment.

Thus, what this all is showing is that – Morals/teaching of Morals to “just Follow like a Religion”, is not enough to Guide Human’s Living/Behaviour within who they are; now the question then is: What Is? And this we’ll be looking at in the next post of Survival Management vs. Life Regulation, in understanding the difference between “knowledge and information” and then “what is practically lived”.

So, essentially – one can look at Morality as this “Mind Insert/Chip” of knowledge and information; that accordingly outlined behaviour/etiquette and the general do’s / don’ts within the Guidelines of what’s Good/Right and Bad/Wrong according to the Culture. So, what then – determines why Children, all Children, who are educated within/as their Family Morals – not Follow/Live by the rules/regulations of Morality, both within the Family context and the Societal context; but more often than not – sneakily / deceptively, deliberately, find ways/means/methods to “Free themselves” from Morality as is disciplined into their Minds and their Lives? It’s like, what Morality does is make things “Black and White”; when an individual’s personalized Mind/Consciousness and how they evolve in their relationship to their mind and so to others/their world is Multidimensional. So, trying to impose an Absolute System of “either this / that” onto the Multidimensional existence of the Mind/Consciousness – and you get what has become of Young Adults/children today; that is obviously in their behaviour/living showing that within/during Childhood / what it is / how it is that they’re being educated into/as life/living is “not working” and/or there’s something missing…And this “something missing” as well as why it is that it’s not working, is what we will discuss in Posts to come.

For example, there isn’t a Morality-Guideline/Education book that children are given in terms of, when looking at Alcohol again – they’re educated as ‘Alcohol is BAD’ / ‘too much Alcohol is BAD’; and then okay – but, now what about if they’ve established a long-term relationship with a group of friends, and they want you to Drink and Drink a lot – what then? Some children ask their parents what to do, other children / young adults suppress and rather deny friends and stick to their parents Morals, other children / young adults join in – there’s a Freedom to it, more so than the Fear/Reprimand that was educated into them when Morals were taught, so again here we go from the Negative to the Positive, strict Moral Codes vs. Self Freedom / Strict Management vs. Self Management.

So, as you can see – there isn’t with when Morals are Taught, ALL SCENARIOS and situations taken into consideration when a Child/Young Adult faces a Moral Dilemma – it becomes, in a way, a battle between Morality vs. Self; because Morality is/has become more of just a reference / voice in their head of their parents speaking; and then they reference that in context to what is in front of them in reality, with themselves in the Middle: and more often than not – their own Selves/ their own voices become thunderous over the ‘voice of the parents / echoes of Morals in their Minds’ and so BAD becomes GOOD, for them, in the particular relationships/scenario they’re confronted with.

Within this, Morals – what’s Good/Right and/or Bad/Wrong: is Not Life Regulation / Life Education regarding How to Live/consider/regard others, place oneself in another’s shoes, how to assess Reality Consequence, what are Friends/Friendships REALLY – if/as for most of the time, relationships Lead to self compromise and/or Future Consequence; how to make commonsense deductions from reality play-outs/future Consequence – none of this is practically Taught to Children; and so Children are more Taught through WHAT THEY’RE NOT TAUGHT and so walk through Life making an immeasurable amount of Mistakes, because they actually use ENERGY/reactions and their own Personalities/Consciousness to make decisions, which most certainly override ‘parent’s voice in the head’ / ‘Morals’ that have been taught. So, within this – what has to be understood is How Personalities Develop, what are the Energies/Experiences, the Thought Processes, the Internal Conversations/Backchats that drive children/young adults to, according to parents/elders interpretations, ‘going against Family Values/Morals/Etiquette…when it’s not that they’re going AGAINST anything/anyone per say; they’re simply moving/living/making decisions based on their own Minds, within their own Personalities and what has become GOOD for them, their own interests/survival/greed/desires. I mean, Children/Young Adults haven’t been Educated regarding the Mind/Consciousness, Energy, Voices in the Head, Thoughts, Emotions, Feelings – how they work/operate/function, can take over and possess – and so, they Follow their OWN MINDS, which they believe to be WHO THEY ARE, and within ALL of the Mind/Consciousness – Morality can come to play but a small role, when they make their Own Minds/Lives more important than anything/anyone else…

We’ll in the Next Post continue with the difference between MORALITY as Survival Management in relationship to the Mind/Money, and how to approach Morality rather as LIFE-Regulation within the principle of/as equality and oneness as What’s Best for All.